When you have sports coaching, whether, for martial arts or tennis, the coach will often look at your technique and say, “you’re doing it all wrong!”. And then you find that each coach has their theory on how it should be done, even claiming other coaches don’t know what they’re talking about. But when you look at all these different theories and techniques and put them into practice, at that moment where it counts, whether it’s contact with your opponent or with that tennis ball, they all generally put you in the same, correct position, ready to take your shot.
Leadership is like this. Whether you’re quiet and gentle, or you’re loud and angry. When it matters, no matter your style, you have to be in the correct position in terms of vision and trust, ready to lead your team to success.